The Problem With LOOKSMAXXING ► Explained With Dark Souls

The game Dark Souls made me realize that the problem with looks maxing is that it makes you worry about the wrong things. The problem is not that it makes you more attractive or improves your physical health or whatever. Those are good things and I think you should want to be more healthy and attractive and improve your self-esteem, but that’s not what the issue is. I used to feel really anxious and actually kind of ugly because of like the look smashers and

All the beautiful people I would see on my Instagram. But Dark Souls made me realize the truth of it all, and I want to share it with you. In Dark Souls, at the very beginning of the game, when you’re making your character, you choose a class with different stats and attributes. The different attributes give you strengths in different areas. Maybe you want to choose someone who starts off with a lot of physical strength or someone with lots of

Intelligence for magic and stuff. These are the important things that you take maybe like 1 minute to decide, and it will probably affect which route you will take throughout the whole game. If you choose like a more strength heavy build right from the beginning, you’ll probably keep choosing to upgrade your strength. If you choose intelligence, you’re probably going for a magic build. Even the naked character, which has all the stats equal, still puts you in a

Good place because he’s well-rounded and you can keep upgrading him as you please. You just need to find him some clothes. This all probably takes like 1 minute to decide, but then the character customization screen comes on and you take like 10 minutes just to customize the way he looks. The way you look doesn’t matter at all. Yeah, sure, if you make him like a funny, weird green booger monster, it’s funny. But most of the game, you’ll be wearing concealing

Armor and your skin will be like beef jerky. So, your whole design is just ruined anyway. The design of your character is probably the least important thing in the game that a lot of people give the most time to, and that’s me included. I know it sounds like stupid and funny, right? Like, sure, the reason we do it is because it’s funny, but there’s no real point. The real important thing is leveling up your character attributes and your

Weapons and your armor, but we spend more time on our appearance. The stats of your character will determine if the game is even playable, if you can even progress. Like, it might just be impossible to proceed if you don’t level up. This is what’s actually important. If you focus only on appearance, the game is harder. It might be kind of funny, but it’s harder if you don’t pay attention to your actual stats. And that’s what I want to say about looks

Maxing because I think that it focuses on the wrong things. And let’s just cut the crap, okay? Because I know some people are going to be like, um, actually, I do it for myself and I do it to be more healthy. If you were alone in the wilderness, you would still take care of your health so you don’t feel awful. But you would absolutely not give a how you looked if no one was around to see it. The only reason the

Aesthetic aspect matters is because the hope is there that I’ll attract a mate. Now, I’m not even saying that this is a bad thing. I think humans are actually designed to like want to be validated. They want to be recognized. They want to be seen. But I just want to be on the same page as you guys. So, I can tell you it’s okay to want validation. Looks max so you can be more healthy and more

Attractive. But who do you want to be attractive for? Do you want to be more attractive so you can sleep around as much as you want and live in lust? Do you want the approval of people you don’t give a about? Of course not, right? You want to be validated and have love in your life and have relationships and feel good, like good self-esteem, but you want it to be with the right people. You hear sometimes these people

In comment sections of a 10 out of 10 attractive guy like, “Now he can bag a 3 out of 10.” And then another comment will respond to that first comment like, “And then the three out of 10 guy bags the 10 out of 10 girl.” It’s a bitter way to look at things, but it does have some truth. Because sometimes a less attractive guy will get with a girl that looks like wow just because he’s actually a good person. He’s not even a

Badl looking guy either. He’s just not matching up to the up standards that Tik Tok people set. What do you really want in this life? Do you want only hollow pleasures and stimulation and sex? or do you want to live a good life and feel good and have a beautiful wife who loves you genuinely and is not a slime ball who sleeps around for fun with other men? It really depends on what your priority is. If you really

Want to sleep around, then I can’t convince you differently. But I think nobody really wants the anxiety that comes from always catering to what other people want. Am I attractive enough for them? Is my schlong big enough? The truth is that when you find someone who is actually important in your life, none of that stuff is going to matter to them. they’re actually just going to love you for you. If you have like a big birth mark on your face, that person is

Still going to love you. If you have burn scars all over your body and it’s like all over your face, everywhere, that person is still going to love you. Everyone on this planet has something that makes them attractive. Even if it’s not a conventional attractive trait, you are attractive enough as you are. You don’t need to look like someone else to be attractive. And you can become the best version of yourself by being on self-improvement. Not just looks maxing,

But self-improvement. Your face is uniquely your own. Don’t worry about what people say beauty is on Instagram. Quality is better than quantity. And I think that if you’re focused on the wrong things, always wanting to meet impossible beauty standards from Tik Tok or wherever that your appearance is not good enough, you’re wrong. You might just be worried about the wrong things, looking in the wrong places. Half the reason this stuff spreads is because insecure people are profitable. These

Looks maxing influencers give you a problem you didn’t even know that you had and then sell you the solution. But this is why the looks maxer who dedicated all of his time to his physical attractiveness and sex appeal still ends up with basically a hoe who sleeps around and is conventionally not even that good-looking because he spent all of his time customizing his appearance but not upgrading his attributes, his kindness or his mental fortitude or his standards or his

Discipline. This is why the guy who, okay, yeah, doesn’t look like the most handsome guy ever ends up with the girl of his dreams because he’s more focused on building something real. And a higher quality girl will recognize that instantly. Now, if you want to have the best of both worlds, you don’t just want to be the guy who has no care about his physical appearance beyond like basic hygiene, but he’s a really funny guy. You don’t just you don’t just want to be

Like that, but you also don’t want to be stuck in the realm of, “Oh my gosh, I want what are they going to think of me? I hope I’m handsome handsome enough. I hope that my schlong is big enough.” I think the best thing that you could do is be in the middle, be balanced, self-improvement, because everything that is part of self-improvement, exercise, improving your diet, meditating, developing stronger attributes overall for your character, some of this stuff also covers what

Looks maxing covers. Exercising will lower your body fat and give you a more defined and attractive face and jawline. So will eating cleaner, and it’ll make you look physically more attractive. You can even align your workouts to be more looks maxing focused for the highest return on investment. But you’re not just only focused on the looks. You’re also doing the work like upgrading your mental health so that when a highquality woman comes into your life, the kind of

Girl you want to marry and give your heart to, then you’ll be ready in all aspects. You will be a threat who looks attractive but also has the attributes of someone you would want to be around. And at that point, you don’t even need to look for people to be in your life. they’ll come to you. The problem with looks maxing is that it makes you focus on the wrong things. But the solution is self-improvement. Now, if you like Dark

Souls and self-improvement, there is one link in the description. It’s to join my community of self-improvement and Dark Souls. We talk about both of those things together. And I think that if you like this video, then you might like to join that. I hope this video helped you guys. Take care. Okay? Don’t don’t go hollow.